I have always been told that there is an element of truth in any and every criticism. And while that may be true some of the time, I do not believe that this is true in every case. Sometimes, criticism has no basis in truth at all.
I experienced some pretty severe criticism recently. This was a critical statement that came across very hateful. It hurt. And it came from someone that I counted as a friend, making it feel all the more personal.
This criticism struck me deeply, and hurt. But at the same time, it has no truth to it at all.
The statement was made that I am a poor father, a lazy father, and that I do nothing to help my wife with the kids.
If there is one area of my life where I sense my priorities need to be strong, it is in my role in the home. I give serious effort to being the best father and husband I can be. My relationship with my wife and my relationships with my kids are at the top of my list, surpassed only by my relationship with God. These relationships are crucial to me, and I make every effort to be the best that I can be in each.
In fact, I view my role as a father as so important that I created a website with encouragement and resources for dads to be the best dads that they can be. You can check it out at DeliberateDads.com.