Chapter 4 of first Timothy contains the passage that has probably been used more often in youth ministries than any other. It seems to be the hallmark of youth ministry visions. You’ve probably heard it often, especially if you’re involved in your church’s youth or children’s ministries.
You can find it in 1 Timothy 4:11-12:
Paul begins this section by stating to Timothy that he is to command and teach these things. Paul has laid out a lot of instruction for Timothy in regards to the false teachers, the role of women, the duties of the elder and the deacon, and more. Paul’s exhortation to Timothy in this phrase is to stand upon the authority of God’s word; command and teach. Because of God’s authority, Timothy has authority. He is to use it.
However, Timothy seems to be experiencing some timidity, perhaps because of his youth. Paul encourages him to not let others judge him because of that though. But just how old was Timothy? Some have suggested that he was very young, perhaps in his teens and twenties. However, this phrase can be used to refer to people of any age up to around forty. And if Timothy accompanied Paul on his missionary journeys in AD 49-50, and this letter was written around AD 62-63, then Timothy could have been in his early to mid thirties.
And remember, age is relative. In my own congregation, I lead people of all ages. To the teens, I’m the “old guy” in my early forties. But to many others in the congregation, I seem young, even the age of their own children. Just because Paul refers to Timothy’s youth doesn’t mean that he is a child.